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Nebulous said:
My bio-dad wasn't around at all, there was no step dad either. My mom was single forever after him.

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I'm often envious of people whose dads weren't there, or were good dads. I know that sounds horrible, but...sometimes they're better not being in your life than being...well.
 
PGen98 said:
I'm often envious of people whose dads weren't there, or were good dads. I know that sounds horrible, but...sometimes they're better not being in your life than being...well.
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Well he was around until I was like 8 or 9, then him and mom would break up and get back together for a couple years. I don't think I saw him at all from like age 12 - 18.

Yeah glad they broke it off. He was abusive back then.
....now he's a harmless old man who I barely have a relationship with. He texts me every once in a while but thats about it.
 
Nebulous said:
Well he was around until I was like 8 or 9, then him and mom would break up and get back together for a couple years. I don't think I saw him at all from like age 12 - 18.

Yeah glad they broke it off. He was abusive back then.
....now he's a harmless old man who I barely have a relationship with. He texts me every once in a while but thats about it.
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Understandable, completely. I have a horrible, fractured relationship with my dad and sadly I know him far better than I ever wanted to. Terrible human being, probably the reason I'm so disgusted in my own self.
 
Nebulous said:
:hug:
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Yeah, and he really piled it on, too. He was a total bigot, as well, hated everyone, he treated my mum and my sisters like crap, but I was his pride and joy, his boy! I ate it up as a child, because what did I know? I look back and I wish I could beat myself up for that. I let him treat my sisters like crap because that's just who he was. Awful person, and so was/am I.
 
PGen98 said:
Yeah, and he really piled it on, too. He was a total bigot, as well, hated everyone, he treated my mum and my sisters like crap, but I was his pride and joy, his boy! I ate it up as a child, because what did I know? I look back and I wish I could beat myself up for that. I let him treat my sisters like crap because that's just who he was. Awful person, and so was/am I.
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You're not an awful person. :hug:

I suppose one day he'll just be a memory. So you can look forward to that.
 
Nebulous said:
You're not an awful person. :hug:
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I am, though.
Nebulous said:
I suppose one day he'll just be a memory. So you can look forward to that.
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That's what I look forward to, as terrible as it sounds. He's the reason I have to live a double-life, I'm me everywhere but around him. Can't wait for the day I don't have to be here anymore and I can sever that relationship.
 
PGen98 said:
because they see an adult who can't ground them or give them detention
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*looks around* Serafin, paging Serafin.... :LOL:
 
Nebulous said:
Well I am off to go see Strange World with my kid. Be back later.

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Enjoy; we'll keep things running for you!

*moments later* Okay, @PGen98, follow me to the Admin Office and we'll lock Nebby out while he's out.... :LOL: :p :LOL:
 
Webster said:
Oh, I thought you said "part of a Nebby exposing"..... :LOL:
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Already did that in the Taboo Tavern :whistles:
Webster said:
*looks around* Serafin, paging Serafin.... :LOL:
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Starting to think you're obsessed with that guy at this point.
Nebulous said:
Well I am off to go see Strange World with my kid. Be back later.

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Just got back, such a cute movie :wub:
Webster said:
Enjoy; we'll keep things running for you!

*moments later* Okay, @PGen98, follow me to the Admin Office and we'll lock Nebby out while he's out.... :LOL: :p :LOL:
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I'll get in :D

flame thrower kill it with fire GIF
 
Nebulous said:
Starting to think you're obsessed with that guy at this point.
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As much as I can't stand the sonuva :censored: , I do admit that I do miss having him around.... :evilgrin:
 

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